Maybe Baby : 28 Writers Tell the Truth About Skepticism, Infertility, Baby Lust, Childlessness, Ambivalence, and How They Made the Biggest Decision of Their Lives

1. TAJINDER wrote:

   I am almost 11 weeks pregnant but I don't seem to gain weight. Am I fine and also I don't feel hungry even though I am going to poo frequnetly, probably 2 times a day. Is it ok.

   Comment on 11th Dec '06 @ 11:01 amThis comment is 1

2. Christine wrote:

   yeah I haven't gained any wieght yet either just wait you'll get there! LOL

   Comment on 12th Jan '07 @ 3:43 pmThis comment is 1

3. bibi wrote:

   im 11 weeks and i eat like a pig is that normal...but i also pea alot and puke everything i eat i no thats normal...im getting worried tho....about the way im eating..my pants none fit but the maternity either...what should i do...

   Comment on 2nd Feb '07 @ 1:48 pmThis comment is 1

4. Toni wrote:

   Im 11 weeks and showing not much but my boobs are huge,this is my first and they say you grow grow grow with baby # 1..I just got over being sick for like 10 weeks,Im 28 and ready for the next step..lol

   Comment on 12th Feb '07 @ 10:55 pmThis comment is 1

5. Paula wrote:

   hey... i'm almost 11 weeks and i don''t feel like i'm pregnant. If it wasn't for my missing period and my positive home AND blood test... I wouldn't believe it. i don't have cravings, no sickness, no weight change, no NOTHING! is that normal??

   Comment on 4th Mar '07 @ 7:03 pmThis comment is 1

6. Jeanelle James wrote:

   mornin mama's-to-be... I had some similar feelings and questions. I realized I was pregnant around 5 weeks and never really had any sickness. I was extremely tired all the time and my boobs were sore. I was eating like a starved pig and no matter what I ate I never gained an ounce. For the most part that all went away by 9 weeks and now I really dont feel pregnant at all. I was concerned like many of you so I asked my doctor, he said that everything is perfect and the reason for all those symptoms going away all at once is that the placenta takes over most of the work from this point on. That means... we get to feel better now!! We are all close to the second trimester which is a celebration point... So if your not feeling like crap right now... thank your lucky stars and throw yourself an ice-cream party! Congrats to all of you!! Always remember there are tons of places online you can talk to other mama's and if you dont like the advice your getting there, or feel that you still have questions CALL YOUR DOCTOR!! thats what they are there for. Most doctors offices have a 24/7 phone you can reach them at so ask for that number! There are always help lines and friends if you are still freaking out... The best thing for you and your baby is to stay calm, relax, and be happy. Just cause you dont feel right doesnt mean there is anything wrong. And dont stress about your feelings it only makes you feel worse.
   
   hope that helps someone... i know its kinda long-winded.
   again, take care of all of you and congrats!!

   Comment on 4th May '07 @ 11:48 amThis comment is 1

7. amy duffy wrote:

   To bibi (who no longer needs this advice!): Re: the ill-fitting pre-pregnancy pants but not big enough to fit into maternity pants... There is a product that you can buy called by various names, one being the "Bella Band". It is a band of fabric that goes over the waistband of your "skinny" pants, hiding that they are unbuttoned or even unzipped. It looks just like a layered tee or top underneath your regular top. They come in a few basic colors and sizes. Just search online for "Maternity Clothing" or "Bella Band". Best of luck!

   Comment on 9th Jun '07 @ 1:01 pmThis comment is 1

8. Robin Saylor wrote:

   Oh my! I really have a lot of adjusting to do. My husband and I had only known each other 3 weeks, feel fast and hard. Were married on the 4th week and by the 8th week I was pregnant. My first marriage, my first baby, talk about stress! I know I am supposed to be relaxing, thinking of the baby and all but I am so overwhelmed I wonder if I made a horrible mistake. Did any of you ever feel this way? One minute I am so happy and thrilled the next I am completely stressed and concerned about the marriage, the baby and if we took on too much too soon. Sometimes I thinkg it is my hormones, the rest of the time I just think I am loosing it. I am really glad to be having a baby! I just hope this roller coaster does not affect my babies mental health.

   Comment on 28th Jul '07 @ 7:34 pmThis comment is 1

9. Lorene wrote:

   Im only 18 and im needing advise on my pregnancy so if anyone has advice for me my email is gpclassof07@yahoo.com so send me an email please thanks alot your friend lorene

   Comment on 2nd Aug '07 @ 11:45 pmThis comment is 1

10. shasta wrote:

    i am with you on that one robin... i met my husband when he came back from ait (hes in the army) and whenever he came back for leave or whatever we would hang out... then this chrismas he came back for christmas and we totally were head over heels.. we got married 2 mths later and now im 11 weeks pregnant... its super stressful because were still getting used to the marriage and now we have to get ready for this baby. its been better recently, but a couple weeks ago i was a wreck.. snapping all the time. im pretty sure thats normal though...

    Comment on 7th Aug '07 @ 2:09 pmThis comment is 1

11. Dorna wrote:

    I'm 47 and having a "surprise" baby, I don't believe in abortion and I am not unhappy having another child but my kids are 23 and 26 respectively and I am having a hard time adjusting. And God how I forgot how much being morning sick sucks! I've actually lost a few pounds since I got pregnant but I'm sure I will start gaining now that I'm at the 11 week mark, hopefully the morning sickness will decrease!

    Comment on 30th Nov '07 @ 11:44 amThis comment is 1

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